Friday, November 21, 2008
SCC Song...
Let's all remember to continue to pray for this family, especially with the Holiday season coming. I cannot even imagine the emotions that they must deal with every day of their lives.
-Bill.
Decision Update!
I will admit that I didn't see this opportunity as a "Mission" but then I remembered the verse that says, "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world." - James 1:27 (NIV). I have read this verse for years now but I never thought of it as a calling but then I realized that all of God's work is a calling. From the secretary at a church to the man in the mission field in India. In God's eyes there are no small tasks that bring glory to his kingdom.
Isn't it nice to know that God's ideas and definitions are so much greater than our own?
I will ask for prayer during this time as the Deceiver has tried to make me feel unworthy of service. We all have sin in our lives and we all struggle with it. I have been so focused on thinking that I must be perfect to do God's work but I was reminded by a friend last week that if I was truly perfect I would most likely not be on this earth anymore but be sitting next to our Saviour in Heaven. I don't think God is done with me quite yet - I hope!
So here's the sales pitch - sign up to go to camp. It WILL change your life forever. BMH Camp - click here
More to come... Bill
PS - Martin, if you are reading this, thank you for being such a good friend. I appreciate your comments and encouragement more than you know.
Friday, November 7, 2008
Hi Everyone, I'm back.. for now?
I use the analogy of wearing a mask to describe how this verse effected me while I was in China. The short of it is that when I was there, surrounded by strangers, I felt as though I was wearing a mask and I could do things that I wouldn't normally do. There was no fear of rejection or judgement simply because I didn't know these people and did not think that I would see most of them once the camp was over. The realization that I took from this was that, it wasn't that I couldn't do something but that I wouldn't do something out of fear, pride or whatever the excuse would be behind the circumstance. God spoke to me on that trip and has been speaking to me ever since. He has let me see that the life that I have been living was not furthering the Kingdom and in the end that is all this life is ever about.
I would ask for prayers during this time as God reveals to me the exact path that I am to follow. In the meantime I have decided to jump in and volunteer whenever and where ever I can. I would challenge all of you out there to do the same. There is so much more to life than money, work, television... and the list goes on. There is always someone out there in a worst situation than we are and we can help and make a difference.
I will apologize again for not writing for a while and will make it a goal to write more and let everyone know what is going on in my life and the life of my family.
Saturday, August 30, 2008
Abby's 5th Birthday Party
Saturday, August 23, 2008
Beijing Olympics with kids
Friday, August 15, 2008
Videos from Camp
Things may be changing... ??
Friday, August 8, 2008
Friday Morning
Monday, August 4, 2008
Monday morning - I'm home!
Friday, August 1, 2008
Friday afternoon
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Friday is here.
Thursday - Day 4
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Wednesday - Day 3 part 2
Wednesday - Day 3
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Tuesday Day 2
Tuesday Day 2 - videos
Tuesday - Day 2 of camp - I think?
Monday, July 28, 2008
Monday - First day of camp
Sunday, July 27, 2008
We Made it to ZhengZhou
One more post
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Sunday morning
Saturday - Ming Tombs, Great wall
The first stop - Ming Tombs. It only took about 45 minutes to get there. This place was pretty cool. We got a lot of information from Jackie about the tombs and the emperors of China. I wont get into all of the details but there were some funny stories about how one of he emperors lost his title after only two years because of a woman and a fight with another royal family member.
Next stop - Jade factory. Not really too much excitement for me here. I have been to one of these in the past and it is a short tour followed by a store to purchase what you saw. Kind of like Disney dropping you off a ride into a store. This one was very expensive compared to others.
Next stop - Lunch at the friendship store. This is basically the same as the jade factory. hey give you a sort tour of how they make vases and such and then drop you into a store followed by lunch. There are a lot of neat items that you can purchase. This store is not for the locals, only tourists. The prices have gone up quite a bit since the last time we were here. I would say they have tripled. The lunch is a tradition Chinese meal with some American style items such as french fries.
Next stop - The Great Wall. This was only about 30 minutes from the lunch place. Pete and I went as high as we could go in the time that Jackie alloted for us which was about 30 minutes up and 30 minutes back. There is a lot of pollution so the visibility was not that great. he wall was crazy. It would go from 4" high steps to just a sloped walkway at probably a 50+ degree angle. Pete got a lot of looks and stopped a lot for the tattoos. They all wanted to read his arm. He got a lot of laughs too because he has ma ma (mommy) in Chinese on the front of his arm. We think they were laughing because he didn't know what it says but they didn't see the back side where he has ba ba (daddy). It was a really cool trip and a good opportunity to share with other people why we are over here and also talk about our adoptions.
The plans for tonight are small - eat, blog and sleep. I have been very lucky with the computer to be able to videoconference with the family at home over the Mac. The internet at this hotel is great. I am not counting on the same when we get to Zhengzhou (Jung - Joe). hopefully we will have a connection but if not thank you everyone for your prayers. They are definitely working as we have not hit a snag yet (knock on wood).
Bill
Update - We went down to dinner. We had the buffet in the hotel. It was good. I had duck, fish and chocolate cake for desert. Think I am going to crash now. More to follow tomorrow....
Saturday Morning - Beijing
It's Saturday morning. I got about 5 hours of sleep last night. I think a train went through the room (or maybe it was just Pete snoring??). We decided to take a cab down to the Bird's Nest Stadium last night. We were not able to get in or even all that close because of all of the security but we did manage to get a couple of photos from outside the fence. There were literally thousands of people leaving the stadium as we were dropped off. We think they were there rehearsing for the ceremonies. It is amazing to see just how many people live just in this city of China. They have implemented an odd/even license plate rule for driving. If you have an even plate you can drive certain days and the same thing for odd. Even with this rule in place there is still a lot of traffic. There are 1300 new cars on the road in China every day - just amazing.
I'll back track a little and tell you that we went out to have an authentic Chinese dinner (Pete's choice). We had some interesting food. There was a shrimp dish that came out with the head, tail, shell and all. I tried ONE. Next was a mutton dish which was actually very good but very spicy for my taste. Last was a brown rice type dish with pork and duck (my choice). This was a very tasty dish. We spent about $15 for both of us including 2 cans of soda a piece. (Mark R, if you are reading this, Yes, Bill had two cans of Pepsi in China and I can tell you that they taste no better over here. I cannot wait to find a real can of Coke). What is really amazing is the service that you get at restaurants over here. They are constantly trying to please you and make sure you are 100% happy.
Breakfast was good. They always have American style breakfast foods at the hotels. Scrambled eggs, pancakes, waffles, etc... Pete was a little more daring with the Chinese breakfast foods then I was.
Bill
Friday, July 25, 2008
We made it!!!
123 miles to go...
1813 Miles down and a lot to go...
1/4 of the way there now and I am starting to remember being in Beijing - the sights, sounds and even the smells. It is a feeling that I have missed at times but now is starting to cause me to be anxious. The culture is so different there but nothing like I had first imagined. One of the goals for this trip is to try and take in more of that culture so that I can come home and share it with Abby and Jadyn. We sometimes feel that we robbed them of their heritage but at the same time know that it was not God's will for them to grow up in an orphanage. Debbie is probably getting a little scared reading this thinking that I am already thinking about adopting again and the plane has not even landed yet. I cannot say that will never happen because I have learned to never say never but I am not leaning in that direction, yet. I am praying that this trip will reveal more of what my goals are for my life and for that of my family. 1953 miles down and STILL a lot to go...
Bill
To Tiffani
I am 351 miles into the trip and you came to my mind Tiff. I want you to know how much I love you and how proud of you I am. I know that Mom and I may get on your case about the little things but when it comes to the big choices and decisions I am really impressed by the choices you make. You never cease to amaze me at how much you have grown over the years. No more "little Tiffani" but you are still my little girl. I know at times it may seem that I am too busy for you or that I have to spend so much time taking care of Abby and Jade but I want you to know that I am always here for you. You have grown so fast and I constantly tell mommy how unfair it is. I wish you could stay little Tiffani forever but that isn't that way life is. God has big plans for your life but I do not mind waiting a little longer to see what they will be. You are truly an amazing young woman and I am very proud of you.
Daddy.
Still Day 1
We are on the flight to Beijing. Pete started up a conversation with a couple behind us who ended up being one of the families with one of my websites. (www.weloveyougracie.com). I am constantly reminded of how small this world really is sometimes.
We made a stop at the Continental Presidents Club to grab a couple of snacks and post to the blogs before the flight. I think we must have snuck in somehow. They let me in and then stopped Pete. They told him that you must be flying first class or be a member to go in - which I am neither of but then she asked Pete if he was with me and said okay - go in. We think it might have had something to do with the Tattoos.
Anyway, we are on the flight and have the bulkhead row and an empty seat between us (way to go Pete). Distance for this flight is +7000 miles, 12 hours and 40 minutes.
Bill
PS - Pete saw Ann Currie (probably not spelled correct) in the waiting area. He couldn't get up the nerve to ask if it was her though.
PS #2 - Okay, I have to add another Ps right now. Pete is over there writing a book and making me feel that I didn't write enough so let's see - we stopped at the Pres. Club and got some bagels, I got a photo of the aircraft (777-200), oh and I got Pete to get out of his comfort zone and have him ask someone to take a picture of us. I am going to work on getting out of my comfort zone on this trip. I am sure the kids will have no problem helping out in that area. The plan is to let lose and have fun.
Bill.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Day 1 - July 24th
It's about 8:00 am and we are on the flight to EWR. We were able (Pete) to get exit row seating for this flight. I have the whole row (3 seats) to myself so I can stetch out. It was an early morning - Pete called at 2:30 am to let me know that the flight from TPA to EWR was cancelled and we could either fly to EWR from MCO (Orlando) or wait until tomorrow. I opted for MCO. Daniel (Debbie's brother) was a good sport. Debbie called him to see if he would be willing to drive me over to Orlando. I can always count on him to help out with the hard tasks.
All the girls slept through everything, the phone calls, the noise, the dogs... as I tried to get ready to leave for the airport by 4:30 am. My Mom came over to wish me a safe trip (or try and talk me out of going one more time). She is just being a Mom.
Pete was able to get us on the same flight to PEK (Beijing) with the same bulk head seats that we had already setup. We should have plenty of leg room for the long 13 our flight. It will be really weird for me to go on this trip without the rest of the family. I will miss them a lot.
Jadyn brought me to tears last night. We were talking (or she was talking to me) while I was packing for the third time about the kids at the camp and all of the stuff that I am going to do with them like swimming, etc... Then all of a sudden she took off - she came back a minute later with a favorite book of hers (it has lions which she is really into right now) and said that I could bring the book with me to read to the kids. It just showed me the sweet heart that she has along with showing me how much she values the night time stories that I will have to admit are hard to do some nights. (Dads take a lesson from this). I just love her so much and will miss her a lot.
All of the girls gave me 9 hugs last night for the 9 days that I will be away. Abby needed a few extra - that's Abby. I read the Cat in the hat to Abby and Jadyn last night and then they read The foot book to me. They take turns reading each page.
Then there's Tiff. She is at those teenage years now. I know she will miss me and I will miss her terribly. I cannot believe how much she has grown over the years. We didn't read any books but she helped me so much by picking up last minute things for the trip and the orphans over there. Hopefully she will be able to go next year.
Well, Debbie was a trooper this morning for getting up with me and getting everything ready and calling Daniel. This will probably be the hardest on her. I will be praying for her every day that God would help her with the kids and the house (and let's not forget about the dogs). I love her so much and thank God for her every day.
I brought two bags with me totaling about 75 lbs. They are stuffed with items for the kids and the camp. We are only allowed 44 lbs. total when traveling in China so please pray that we will not have any problems with that.
I also wanted to thank Tim, Jack and Pastor D for calling and emailing. I appreciate the support and prayers. I am so glad to be a part of a church that has strong Godly men that are committed and have a love for the Lord.
I guess I will sign off for now. Debbie, Tiffani, Abby and Jadyn - I Love You... (you too Mom)
4:32 am Thursday
Well, it's 4:23 am. I have been up for a couple hours now. I got a call that the flight from TPA to EWR was cancelled and we could wait until tomorrow or drive to Orlando. We opted for Orlando. Debbie's brother was kind enough to get up and come up get me and take me there. He is in route as I type this. I was talking to Tiff about some of the stress, etc that I was going through getting ready for the trip and it's Funny, but she told me that "someone" might be trying to keep me from going. She might be right. It should all work out. Pray that our flight from EWR to PEK (Beijing) is still good. They couldn't give us seat assignments over the phone....